很多人都是通过自身的努力获得幸福，父母没有权利操纵支配

子女的未来。

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• No. Apples never fall far from the tree. -Oona- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:08:54

• 你要说的是什么呢？你所认为的幸福你孩子不一定也认为 -马啃菠萝- ♀ (92 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:11:53

• 现在社会变化，你的价值观不一定适合下一代，让他们自己去 -马啃菠萝- ♀ (32 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:15:38

• that will be very unfortunate. "you are everything we hoped -Oona- ♀ (149 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:17:15

• Because you dont TRUST your own children's ability -马啃菠萝- ♀ (50 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:19:32

• Humans are humans. you need to be careful about even yourself. -Oona- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:22:35

• Then why you can't trust your children -马啃菠萝- ♀ (50 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:25:25

• please see below answers. -Oona- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:28:51

• All relationships base on the Trust, including parents and child -马啃菠萝- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:20:53

• trust must have conditions--that is a rule. -Oona- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:23:33

• And trust are EARNED. If parents don't trust you there must be -Oona- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:26:41

• Then parents must have failed as teachers. -小葡萄妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:29:24

• it is eigher win-win or lose-lose. Childrean can never win their -Oona- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:34:52

• 你在跟你自己的孩子竟争什么？他们是你的孩子，不是你的敌人 -马啃菠萝- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:38:17

• i feel sorry for you. -Oona- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:39:22

• You dont need to. -马啃菠萝- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:42:10

• There is nothing you need to feel sorry for me:p -马啃菠萝- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:43:06

• I feel sorry to Oona's children -fyshy44- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 10:37:44

• :-)))). She will have a very loving relationship with her mom an -Oona- ♀ (33 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 11:53:56

• and dad, -Oona- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 11:54:23

• If you never give your children an oppotunity to try and even -马啃菠萝- ♀ (69 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:30:24

• 现在放手你的孩子还来得及，我见过孩子成为父母的傀儡的例子 -马啃菠萝- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:13:55

• No. i have a very good relationship with my parents and my -Oona- ♀ (103 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:18:16

• Same gene, different soils, different apples. -小葡萄妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:19:20

• No. rules are all the same, no matter where you are. -Oona- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:20:34

• life is full of exceptions to rules. :-) -小葡萄妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:25:20

• i didn't see much. -Oona- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:27:07

• Go out and see more. :-) -小葡萄妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:28:31

• i've seen enough. -Oona- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/11/2010 postreply 09:29:17