Totally agree!

He is just an ordinary man who is not ready for a committed relationship but enjoys a casual relation. I don't see anything particular cold or cruel about him. He did not demand xxx or home cooking from 'the sister' and he did not feel like hanging around her all the time. The sister, however out of her own initiative, gave him care and love. If she was truly in love with him, the action of giving itself should be satisfying to her. The truth is that she wished him to return the same attention and love. Women play this type of passive-aggressive game all the time. Men are very aware of it and can turn cold and distant in fear of being trapped.

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• 恭喜你是个超女人。 对男人的理解超过对自己的同类。 -1800900- ♀ (13 bytes) () 12/20/2009 postreply 13:31:25

• 是这样的。我刚才又拿这问题问了下牛肉，说如果女的date你 -sansemao- ♀ (235 bytes) () 12/20/2009 postreply 13:50:23

• 做饭，送礼物只是一个细节， 姐姐并没要求什么。知道 -1800900- ♀ (171 bytes) () 12/20/2009 postreply 13:58:24

• well, 一种米养百种人，有人愿意回报，有人不愿意。不愿意 -sansemao- ♀ (302 bytes) () 12/20/2009 postreply 14:07:53

• 我觉得你这个人挺没劲的。你跟你朋友交往， 你朋友若是 -1800900- ♀ (201 bytes) () 12/20/2009 postreply 14:12:06

• No need to be judgemental. -Yangtsz- ♀ (223 bytes) () 12/20/2009 postreply 14:17:35

• 我说的”你“，当然是指我以为你所描述的，有那种心态的人 -1800900- ♀ (168 bytes) () 12/20/2009 postreply 14:36:33

• 这可以理解。我们说有这样人存在，不等于说我们喜欢这样的人。 -sansemao- ♀ (70 bytes) () 12/20/2009 postreply 17:39:56