“既然不给予人，也就不受惠于人”, Most fundamental in Chinese culture

Oh, my god!
Your sister is truly Chinese. After so many years, she is still Chinese to the deepest of her heart. I really suspect that she is Chinese in the blood (gene?).
I wonder if the essence of tragedy in this world is the inconsistency of someone's inner value system, or between his values and surrounding environment.

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• “既然不给予人,也就不受惠于人” - Many American people -1800900- ♀ (21 bytes) () 12/18/2009 postreply 08:47:32

• that's called being fair... -Kamioka- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/18/2009 postreply 08:51:40

• 美国男人象这样的还是不少的 -Serendipity3- ♀ (1894 bytes) () 12/18/2009 postreply 09:00:46

• That is very interesting -lakeforest1- ♀ (61 bytes) () 12/18/2009 postreply 09:33:36

• Agree! Suggest Serendipity3 make it a separate post so that -1800900- ♀ (106 bytes) () 12/18/2009 postreply 09:40:08

• MM是道听途说，还是看过这方面的文章？有文章的话，给个Link。 -foxinsnow- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/18/2009 postreply 09:45:13

• 不是道听途说。 -Serendipity3- ♀ (316 bytes) () 12/18/2009 postreply 10:27:02

• 我开始怀疑你女友见的是不是我前前前男友，LOL -Kamioka- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/18/2009 postreply 12:20:40

• LOL! they met on plentyoffish.com -Serendipity3- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/18/2009 postreply 12:23:55

• then I don't know. he was a friend of mine before we dated. -Kamioka- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/18/2009 postreply 12:29:24

• This "卫生纸用的太多，下次你自己带" pissed me off :-) -1800900- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/18/2009 postreply 12:26:18

• 还有更神的！ -Serendipity3- ♀ (383 bytes) () 12/18/2009 postreply 12:47:47

• 大开眼界 -zhuangqiushui- ♀ (88 bytes) () 12/19/2009 postreply 03:55:19

• A lot of caucasian women have menopause at 40 to 45 -realizesomething- ♂ (131 bytes) () 12/18/2009 postreply 13:04:42

• good to know! I am partially right on this... thanks! -Serendipity3- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/18/2009 postreply 13:11:12

• 这跟中国文化没关系吧。只能说这种行为是极其自我的表现 -sunnylily789- ♀ (256 bytes) () 12/18/2009 postreply 10:43:59

• I don't see anywhere JJ "把自己的“文化”理念强加于别人 -1800900- ♀ (103 bytes) () 12/18/2009 postreply 11:11:23

• 呵呵，89肯定原来是个班干部，很有原则，很认真。 故事 -sunnylily789- ♀ (173 bytes) () 12/18/2009 postreply 11:47:02

• Not only a 班干部, actually once a (sort of) chair(wo)man :-) -1800900- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/18/2009 postreply 11:54:42