我在原文下面问了一堆问题，这位美国作家只回了一个“serious”的

原贴在这：
89MM boyfriend 告诫书的反馈：
http://web.wenxuecity.com/BBSView.php?SubID=kghy&MsgID=595246

我的问题是：

I do not completely understand 1). The issue is a very important and difficult issue, and improper grammar further confuses me.
If you still have access to the source, please ask him to elaborate 1).
Also, what is the typical behavior he knows on this issue?
For example, what do "many people" see personal relationship? If it is not one of "goals", it must be some play. What kind of play? competitive sport? physical exercise? leisure? boredom and time killer? desire quencher?
If possible, for the sake of people in this forum, ask him that in his opinion, what kind of women or women's behavior, or what kind of process will turn this play into long-term relationship.

As for 2):
Those people who are most serious about life probably are most interesting to people in this forum. If they do not like to talk openly, what are the signs that tell them apart from other less-serious men?
What do them look for in women, "in a serious way?" What quality of women they care most? What cue they use to tell these women from many other less ideal women?

Sorry for so many detailed question to someone who may find it is "vulgar." The gold (not devil) is in the details. I think they should be the real targets of many people in this forum.


唉，真是太尴尬了！
中国女人的聪明智慧我一直非常佩服，可真没想到本坛也有如此绝顶的大智大慧之人。我还摸风不着，有人已经开骂了，感觉就像一只井底老蛤蟆，在一群才高八斗的女人脚下乱跳，一不小心给懒猫美眉踩扁了（谢谢）。加上对由此显现出的文化差异的惊骇，跟同事聊了聊，误用了他的马甲，请大家谅解。

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• He did answer all your questions. Just read it again. -忍不住说几句吧- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/15/2009 postreply 10:01:06