Ding! Compatible is very importany...

On the first date with my hu*****and, I did ask him
What is the purpose for you to date? Have fun or looking for the future wife? He told me that he was looking for the future wife that was the same to me as looking for the future hu*****and. But I told him that I ask that question not mean he was the ideal future hu*****and for me in that time. I just don't want waste my time with "Have fun" person, period!
After several months dating, I think he was good although he told me for many times that I was the right person for him on the first date. For emotion, I know I am slow than him in most times, until now. The past two weeks, I experienced how deep I love him because he just had un-expected surgery... I know my life cannot without him... We married for more than 6 years...
I think we are very compatible, that puts me in this marriage...