My guess is: If you expect to be married with him soon

(like in a year or so) you two should have moved in with each other and live together now. If you still meet only once a week, the marriage would probably not happen soon.

Target to move in with him first.

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同意, 我觉得你们相处的时间不够。 -蓝枪鱼- 给 蓝枪鱼 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2009 postreply 11:36:06

专家说的对!MOVE IN! -AP24- 给 AP24 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2009 postreply 11:39:57

那也得男的开口啊,he he -asd_123- 给 asd_123 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2009 postreply 11:45:47

专家的建议很好,我在租房子,他有房子,可他没这意思,我怎末提呀? -新新人类- 给 新新人类 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2009 postreply 11:45:27

他知道你的身份问题吗?还是别自己开口了,再把他吓跑了:) -MMXIAO- 给 MMXIAO 发送悄悄话 MMXIAO 的博客首页 (68 bytes) () 12/10/2009 postreply 11:49:24

我和老板谈了,老板和大老板也打了招呼,说公司现在要LAID -新新人类- 给 新新人类 发送悄悄话 (115 bytes) () 12/10/2009 postreply 11:57:26

能找到别的工作吗?感觉找工作比找劳工容易:) -MMXIAO- 给 MMXIAO 发送悄悄话 MMXIAO 的博客首页 (61 bytes) () 12/10/2009 postreply 12:04:05

我也试过,不过现在找能SPONSORSHIP的工作也很难. -新新人类- 给 新新人类 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2009 postreply 12:09:39

You must separate these two different things, unless you -1800900- 给 1800900 发送悄悄话 1800900 的博客首页 (67 bytes) () 12/10/2009 postreply 12:12:32

Otherwise, find a proper time and have a honest -1800900- 给 1800900 发送悄悄话 1800900 的博客首页 (263 bytes) () 12/10/2009 postreply 12:27:21

是.现在经济还是没缓过来.祝你各方面都好运吧 -MMXIAO- 给 MMXIAO 发送悄悄话 MMXIAO 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2009 postreply 12:14:32

现在不能提。好好发展你门的关系,别再提想结婚的事。争取 -AP24- 给 AP24 发送悄悄话 (86 bytes) () 12/10/2009 postreply 11:52:47

The 前提 of moving in is that you two naturally want to -1800900- 给 1800900 发送悄悄话 1800900 的博客首页 (229 bytes) () 12/10/2009 postreply 11:55:34

这不成了为结婚而结婚嘛. -MMXIAO- 给 MMXIAO 发送悄悄话 MMXIAO 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 12/10/2009 postreply 11:45:33

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