回复：抱抱。生活不易，好好保重。我是这么看的：

晕海, 感谢你的建议. 不满你说,我一直follow 你的文章, 暗暗期望也许你回给我写几句 :-) 还真盼来了. 谢谢.

The agreement we had was kind of a number we agreed. It was too stressful to take care of 2 kids and a job, plus the emotional stress with the divorce. I didn't have the time and energy and was not in the mood to argue with him. Because we both had (and have, thank God) good jobs, our income is way above the court's calculation table. Frankly, from what I heard of other people's case, it's probably a fair amount, even though it's only 15% of his net income. What I hate most is this manipulating and all the lies. And I feel so bad for the kids. They need not to know this. 我很心痛孩子, 怕对他们有坏影响.
我很庆幸自己有一份工作,可以自给自足并养活孩子. 我在劝自己不生气, 不跟他计较, 但真难啊. I know it's hard to 把他怎么样, 他在中国,我也没办法去捉他. 只是心里不平衡, 咽不下这口气. 哎, 碰上个不自觉的, 只能字认倒霉.
By the way, I left a message at your blog page a couple of days a ago. Love to read your posting. Hope may be someday you would write about your divorce struggles when it doesn't hurt anymore (while that day ever come? :-) Anyway, thanks again.