Engagement Ring,

来源: dellcomputer 于 2009-08-15 14:32:05 [] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (866 bytes)

I am actually dellcomputer's fiancee. We were engaged in June and we plan on getting married in 2010, probably in the spring.

The reason I am posting is that dellcomputer always forgets to wear her engagement ring. This morning I asked her to put it on and it took her 5 minutes to find it because it was buried in a dresser drawer.

I love dellcomputer very much and I don't really mind that she hardly ever wears the engagement ring, I am justcurious if this is a normal situation. Are there other ladys out there who also "forget" to wear their engagement ring or are there other guys out there who also have a fiancee who never likes to wear the ring? What are your thoughts on this?

Please reply in english as I am unable to read or speak chinese.

Thank you for your time and responses!

Confused American Guy.

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• wow -guaiwolf- ♀ 给 guaiwolf 发送悄悄话 guaiwolf 的博客首页 (272 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 14:36:53

• 回复：wow -dellcomputer- ♀ 给 dellcomputer 发送悄悄话 (132 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 14:39:57

• icic. good for u guys :) -guaiwolf- ♀ 给 guaiwolf 发送悄悄话 guaiwolf 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 14:44:21

• 此帖莫名其妙，不回。如果他都知道fiance的密码，那戴 -流水无痕- ♀ 给 流水无痕 发送悄悄话 流水无痕 的博客首页 (20 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 16:17:55

• 同意，是有点莫名其妙，而且英文不像native speaker 写的。 -过路人68- ♀ 给 过路人68 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/16/2009 postreply 10:39:20

• 对不起，是我粗心，把下面的英文帖子看成是ＬＺ写的了。。。汗 -过路人68- ♀ 给 过路人68 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/16/2009 postreply 10:51:37

• maybe the ring is expensive -idoubtitit- ♀ 给 idoubtitit 发送悄悄话 idoubtitit 的博客首页 (67 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 14:40:40

• and if she is Chinese, many chinese people are not used to -idoubtitit- ♀ 给 idoubtitit 发送悄悄话 idoubtitit 的博客首页 (28 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 14:41:35

• 回复：maybe the ring is expensive -dellcomputer- ♀ 给 dellcomputer 发送悄悄话 (156 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 14:42:56

• 回复：回复：maybe the ring is expensive -abc007- ♀ 给 abc007 发送悄悄话 (129 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 14:53:46

• he would not know what "LG" means, girl. -idoubtitit- ♀ 给 idoubtitit 发送悄悄话 idoubtitit 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 14:59:37

• I have 3 engagement rings from 2 ex-bfs and my husband. -LoveUrself- ♀ 给 LoveUrself 发送悄悄话 LoveUrself 的博客首页 (430 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 14:49:17

• 回复：I have 3 engagement rings from 2 ex-bfs and my husband. -dellcomputer- ♀ 给 dellcomputer 发送悄悄话 (181 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 14:52:18

• cliche but nevertheless very sweet ：）(sorry not in romantic moo -LoveUrself- ♀ 给 LoveUrself 发送悄悄话 LoveUrself 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:00:11

• 既然分手了，为什么还留着人家送的钻戒？要我，我就还给人家。 -idoubtitit- ♀ 给 idoubtitit 发送悄悄话 idoubtitit 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 14:56:31

• 同感，而且既然没结婚意思还把戒指留下了，不懂 -expo- ♀ 给 expo 发送悄悄话 (18 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:01:23

• 就是，带着那些戒指的时候，8会想到送戒指的人么？ -idoubtitit- ♀ 给 idoubtitit 发送悄悄话 idoubtitit 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:02:55

• 我们分手的时候，他要给我我在他的美金账户里炒股挣的8千块，我都没拿。 -LoveUrself- ♀ 给 LoveUrself 发送悄悄话 LoveUrself 的博客首页 (101 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:10:50

• 主要看谁先提的分手。如果男的先提的，那不还也罢。 -idoubtitit- ♀ 给 idoubtitit 发送悄悄话 idoubtitit 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:13:11

• 分手了2年他都是我的life insurance和财产收益人，1/3，和我爸、妈平分， -LoveUrself- ♀ 给 LoveUrself 发送悄悄话 LoveUrself 的博客首页 (148 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:19:19

• 我觉得你炒股的钱应该拿，戒指应该还 -expo- ♀ 给 expo 发送悄悄话 (82 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:19:57

• 原则上100%同意你，感情上100%不同意，我不再跟这个话题了。 -LoveUrself- ♀ 给 LoveUrself 发送悄悄话 LoveUrself 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:28:12

• 了解，抱抱，反正都过去了 -expo- ♀ 给 expo 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:31:59

• 可以理解.做个纪念吧,十年感情及时分了也是自己的一段人生经历... -pretty_woman2- ♀ 给 pretty_woman2 发送悄悄话 pretty_woman2 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/16/2009 postreply 00:23:44

• talk to her! -expo- ♀ 给 expo 发送悄悄话 (115 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 14:49:17

• What a cute couple! You guys should upload a photo here--Happy w -canola- ♀ 给 canola 发送悄悄话 canola 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:01:03

• 回复：What a cute couple! You guys should upload a photo here--Happ -dellcomputer- ♀ 给 dellcomputer 发送悄悄话 (118 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:04:19

• all are excuses. thanks. -idoubtitit- ♀ 给 idoubtitit 发送悄悄话 idoubtitit 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:06:20

• 2 possible reasons -Q_Bao- ♀ 给 Q_Bao 发送悄悄话 (160 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:06:12

• haha,both of the reasons are negative. -idoubtitit- ♀ 给 idoubtitit 发送悄悄话 idoubtitit 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:06:46

• whatever the reason, i think dellcomputer should -Q_Bao- ♀ 给 Q_Bao 发送悄悄话 (179 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:11:41

• sometimes, actually, a lot of times, truth hurts, lady:) -idoubtitit- ♀ 给 idoubtitit 发送悄悄话 idoubtitit 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:13:50

• 回复：2 possible reasons -dellcomputer- ♀ 给 dellcomputer 发送悄悄话 (213 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:09:14

• why? because it's a shame if no guys propose to her? -idoubtitit- ♀ 给 idoubtitit 发送悄悄话 idoubtitit 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:10:31

• if she likes the ring and she just forgets it, -Q_Bao- ♀ 给 Q_Bao 发送悄悄话 (126 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:14:16

• 回复：if she likes the ring and she just forgets it, -dellcomputer- ♀ 给 dellcomputer 发送悄悄话 (188 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:16:06

• happy for you guys! -Q_Bao- ♀ 给 Q_Bao 发送悄悄话 (48 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:24:15

• you guys are so sweet -LadyG- ♀ 给 LadyG 发送悄悄话 (1010 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:16:45

• 我现在才意识到这是一显摆贴 -expo- ♀ 给 expo 发送悄悄话 (18 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:24:18

• Congratulations for your engagement, -gzlady- ♀ 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 gzlady 的博客首页 (686 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:39:28

• Congrats! As a man you need to accept the way -alazycatinsd- ♀ 给 alazycatinsd 发送悄悄话 alazycatinsd 的博客首页 (262 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:44:05

• I don't have the habit of wearing a ring either...I've lost -胡梦绿- ♀ 给 胡梦绿 发送悄悄话 胡梦绿 的博客首页 (314 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:49:33

• 事情是这样的: -dellcomputer- ♀ 给 dellcomputer 发送悄悄话 (390 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 15:50:05

• 恭喜，happy ending..等待着你俩的wedding photo -ABC007- ♀ 给 ABC007 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 16:09:45

• I think you need to make an effort to leave the ring on -padme- ♀ 给 padme 发送悄悄话 (199 bytes) () 08/16/2009 postreply 11:00:57

• hah, I don't like to wear the ring, any ring. -sansemao- ♀ 给 sansemao 发送悄悄话 sansemao 的博客首页 (139 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 16:10:54

• by the way, congratulations. -sansemao- ♀ 给 sansemao 发送悄悄话 sansemao 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 16:12:22

• Congrats, I like to wear my rings, I never forget them bcz -chinesebuns- ♀ 给 chinesebuns 发送悄悄话 chinesebuns 的博客首页 (161 bytes) () 08/15/2009 postreply 20:33:52

• I am a careless person. I don't care wear it or not. -pretty_woman2- ♀ 给 pretty_woman2 发送悄悄话 pretty_woman2 的博客首页 (140 bytes) () 08/16/2009 postreply 00:32:12

• I am telling the truth, maybe not right. but most possible! -alady99- ♀ 给 alady99 发送悄悄话 (295 bytes) () 08/16/2009 postreply 07:28:04

• 大家砸一砸我让我清醒吧: -alady99- ♀ 给 alady99 发送悄悄话 (489 bytes) () 08/16/2009 postreply 07:40:50

• 完了。人家本来一显摆贴，让你这么一掺合非章子怡不可。小 -SHUAYA少将- ♀ 给 SHUAYA少将 发送悄悄话 (26 bytes) () 08/16/2009 postreply 08:28:10

• 唉！我这唯恐天下不乱的毛病到底什么时候能改呢？ -SHUAYA少将- ♀ 给 SHUAYA少将 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/16/2009 postreply 09:11:32

• 说实在的我挺同情她未婚夫的。 -Xingfujiaren- ♀ 给 Xingfujiaren 发送悄悄话 Xingfujiaren 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 08/16/2009 postreply 15:11:32

• In June, I anounced my engagement news w/ everyone at work -dellcomputer- ♀ 给 dellcomputer 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/16/2009 postreply 17:45:28

• I always feel so lucky to find such a sweet guy -dellcomputer- ♀ 给 dellcomputer 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/16/2009 postreply 17:51:58

• 姐妹们不用为我们费精力了.在这谢过各位. -dellcomputer- ♀ 给 dellcomputer 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 08/16/2009 postreply 17:57:37

• I only took the ring off once. Unfortunetely, a guy asked me out -Xingfujiaren- ♀ 给 Xingfujiaren 发送悄悄话 Xingfujiaren 的博客首页 (88 bytes) () 08/16/2009 postreply 14:56:04

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