实践证明，坛上的姐妹们就是厉害 ：) 上来汇报一下上次的约会。

上来汇报一下上次的约会。 总的来说，实践证明，坛上的姐妹们就是厉害 ：)


我因为没有和西人DATE过。很好奇，他是一个什么样的人,他葫芦里卖的什么药。所
以我就Agree to go to his house. Before I went, I asked my mom call me at 10pm. if I did not pick up or return the phone by 11pm. She should call police.


1。他是个cheap bastard。 he did not bring me to his home directly even thought
it was 7:30pm already, instead we walked around the neighborhood. it was
a nice neighborhood. around 9pm, he finally said let's go back. I thought
he already prepared the food at home, but he did not. he told me that he
was going to make a salad. and he said that he had changed his relationship
with food recently, he was on diet. Hehee, anyway, dinner is water, salad,
soup and bread :( ,
He told me that he had 2 long relationships before, The last girl he dated
was a manager in a big company and she was laid off 2 years ago and she
could not find a job. he asked her to move in with him but she refused and
was back to her hometown instead. They were together for 5 years and he
ONLY see her once a week because she was very busy.

2. after dinner, he put his hand on me and asked for a kiss. lol. I said
no, and I told him that it was too soon for me and I was not ready. I prepered
baby step. He seems very upset. no talking for a few minutes. I told him
that I was ready to go home; I passed the bed time already and I was very
tired.

3. He dropped me off and no more date LOL

所有跟帖： 

• yeah.. forget about this guy... -guaiwolf- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 09:58:57

• According to your description, it looks he isn't so considerate. -deep-sea- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 10:00:28

• by 9pm, you should ask to go home already, that showed -最爱六月杨梅- ♀ (55 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 10:03:53

• yeah, I should :) I was just too curious -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 10:20:25

• Dump him for sure. :) -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 10:06:07

• You are right, he is a "cheap bastard"! -橄榄树1- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 10:07:53

• 和他都DATE 五年了，都不要MOVEIN WITH HIM， 做人也够失败的 ：) -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 10:18:09

• 呵呵，男人小气起来 比女人还小气哦 ：) -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (108 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 10:14:27

• 饿我到9点，换我早翻脸了。。。 -xialai- ♀ (102 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 14:44:12

• 他有说想带我看看周围的环境。I thought that was after dinner -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (126 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 14:47:36

• 9 PM，Omg, 我会饿疯掉的！What a cheap loser! -xueen- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 10:34:35

• I was very hungry and there was no meat on the table. Uh my, -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (54 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 11:01:02

• Poor u, I become very frustrated and depressed when I am hungry. -xueen- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 11:49:26

• 回复：Poor u, same here -AlarmClock- ♀ (86 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 15:26:38

• 下次再有类似情况发生,不用shy.直接跟对方说.看他的反应也能知道他是怎么样一人. -玻璃锤子- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 17:59:22

• Don't go to any guy's house if you don't want have sex yet -pollyli- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 10:37:41

• 头3次约会的基本要求。呵呵。你同意了，就会让人误解 -sansemao- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 10:45:16

• 第三次就该上床了吗 呵呵，我想我是太脱离时代了：) -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 10:47:24

• If you are not ready, NO! -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 10:48:27

• 8是上床，是去对方的家里。上床的事，就要看你自己了。 -sansemao- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 11:36:20

• I was told same thing by one of my American male friends when I -chinesebuns- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 12:04:31

• Myth against women -AlarmClock- ♀ (482 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 15:18:26

• "He seems very upset. no talking for a few minutes..." -AlarmClock- ♀ (140 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 10:44:24

• I guess that I still do not know the dating code. We should kiss -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (161 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 10:54:12

• I mean that I would not kiss a guy that soon even if I really li -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 11:02:23

• even if I really like him -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 11:03:13

• I think the guy maybe mistaken that the lz agreed to hv THAT -chinesebuns- ♀ (136 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 12:08:49

• hehee, that was a good lession for me -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 12:16:29

• I think the guy is looking for fun from on-line dating girls. So -AlarmClock- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 14:21:12

• some men thought -AlarmClock- ♀ (66 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 14:25:11

• I know, I got some emails and asked for one night stand too:) -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 14:44:35

• 回复：I know, I got some emails and asked for one night stand too:) -AlarmClock- ♀ (7 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 15:00:32

• all of them are the same, they would told you -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (104 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 15:14:26

• 看很多电影，好像这里要是应约吃了比较fancy餐馆的dinner,又答应到人家家里坐坐， -jasondand- ♀ (112 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 10:50:23

• 我没有吃比较fancy餐馆的dinner 哦 呵呵。要上床，也要KISS过几次吧？ -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (36 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 10:58:54

• Men can not make you to have sex with him just because he buys y -AlarmClock- ♀ (178 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 11:50:54

• Sorry typo "A man..."：Men can not make you to have sex with him -AlarmClock- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 11:52:59

• yeap! -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 12:01:12

• 一杯饮料一顿饭就要上床吗？ -xialai- ♀ (81 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 13:00:35

• 你把sex看的重，可是有的美国女人也是在找sex，两个人hook up, -jasondand- ♀ (382 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 13:42:33

• 俺倒不是指责呀。只是看到有的男的买了饮料 -xialai- ♀ (764 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 14:38:10

• 你太逗了，我和的水都喷出来了。RE:没这杯饮料这顿饭她也乐意和对方滚床单。 -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 14:41:13

• Cheap Red Neck, so he is. -AlarmClock- ♀ (532 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 11:06:07

• Thanks for sharing. I guess that I did not meet a right person -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 11:15:26

• 回复：Thanks for sharing. I guess that I did not meet a right perso -AlarmClock- ♀ (112 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 11:18:52

• The problem is that I really don't have friends nearby. -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (134 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 11:21:59

• I guess that's the problem we all have to deal with when we firs -AlarmClock- ♀ (122 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 11:43:58

• LOL. If you know someone is looking for Asian, let me know -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 11:57:28

• But you are in the US, right? -AlarmClock- ♀ (32 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 14:19:04

• Grammer: I do not believe IN long distance. Do you? -AlarmClock- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 14:28:35

• I am in US and I do not believe IN long distance. -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 14:39:02

• 回复：I am in US and I do not believe IN long distance. -AlarmClock- ♀ (26 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 14:59:31

• yeap! and I wish that I will get lucky just like you :) -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 15:11:45

• Happy go lucky! -AlarmClock- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 15:23:52

• 回复：实践证明，坛上的姐妹们就是厉害 ：) 上来汇报一下上次的约会。 -AliceWonder- ♀ (554 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 11:37:47

• 回复：回复：实践证明，坛上的姐妹们就是厉害 ：) 上来汇报一下上次的约会。 -AliceWonder- ♀ (376 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 11:42:25

• 羡慕啊，口水都出来了 ：) -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 11:59:42

• MM睁大眼睛慢慢挑。好男人还是有的。 -AliceWonder- ♀ (57 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 12:10:13

• en. thanks :) -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 12:17:23

• 西人的沙拉也是千变万化的 -xialai- ♀ (257 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 12:57:19

• 很对噢，男人和女人是不一样的 -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 13:11:34

• Agree: "小事就能看出为人。" -AlarmClock- ♀ (106 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 14:57:31

• 刚开始约会最好AA在外面吃，最好不要到别人家， -Arrwyn- ♀ (139 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 12:44:48

• 顶阿文~~ -云寄锦书- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 13:42:33

• 赫赫，你胆子挺大的 -胡桃架子-- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 14:03:45

• 我胆子很小的， 我想我是没有经验：) 下次不敢了 -要做个好妈妈- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 14:42:22

• 网上dating 无论是国男还是西男，如果只见过一两次面就不要去他家 -青草青青- ♀ (91 bytes) () 07/20/2009 postreply 16:17:01