what should I do?

I noticed that most of you are talking about wonderful things. But I have some problems recently that bothers me a lot. Hopefully I can get some help from you all.

I have been married for 7 years. At the beginning, sex was great. Then he becomes less interested in sex. At first, I thought this is because he had a stressful job. He gets tired very easily. I was very upset to see him like that. He is in his late 40s. But I heard people in his age are still having sex at least once a week. Now we don't even have sex for a couple of months. BTW, I am not that active either. But I would like to have more sex. I asked him to go see a doctor and check out what is wrong. He never did. I know he is not happy about his situation either. But he doesn't do anything to improve it. This makes me more upset. My question is should I threat him that I will leave him if he doesn't try to improve the situation. Well, other things in our marriage are ok so far other than the regular disagreements. It's been 10 years since we dated and married. I don't even know if I still love him. But I know if we separate I'll be sad. What if he can't improve his situation, should I leave him? Is anyone here have similiar problem or just me?
Any suggestions will be greatly appreciated.

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• 工作压力是主要原因,和你们的婚姻没有关系.但是你说的 -小妹妹~~- ♀ (189 bytes) () 12/16/2006 postreply 15:18:52

• 回复：工作压力是主要原因,和你们的婚姻没有关系.但是你说的 -Blacky- ♀ (192 bytes) () 12/16/2006 postreply 15:29:23

• you can initiate it. -小妹妹~~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/16/2006 postreply 15:36:21

• Some men are like that especially when they have had -sansemao- ♀ (874 bytes) () 12/16/2006 postreply 16:12:24

• 回复：Some men are like that especially when they have had -Blacky- ♀ (174 bytes) () 12/16/2006 postreply 16:19:58

• My pleasure. We have similar problem. -sansemao- ♀ (185 bytes) () 12/16/2006 postreply 16:27:11

• 回复：My pleasure. We have similar problem. -Blacky- ♀ (193 bytes) () 12/16/2006 postreply 16:38:54

• 我的一点儿建议： -菲妈妈- ♀ (128 bytes) () 12/16/2006 postreply 15:37:07

• 嘿嘿,主意多多~~ -小妹妹~~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/16/2006 postreply 16:00:05

• 你们两个人一起去见婚姻顾问 -lookatme..- ♀ (36 bytes) () 12/16/2006 postreply 16:47:03

• 真不知道还有这么多学问呀~~ -小妹妹~~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/16/2006 postreply 19:52:08

• 回复：你们两个人一起去见婚姻顾问 -blacky- ♀ (42 bytes) () 12/16/2006 postreply 20:47:22

• 先咨询你的家庭医生,如果他/她解决不了, 会推荐专科医生. -小妹妹~~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/16/2006 postreply 20:57:40

• 回复：先咨询你的家庭医生,如果他/她解决不了, 会推荐专科医生. -Blacky- ♀ (7 bytes) () 12/16/2006 postreply 21:00:12

• american men look big, but they cannot last long, u should -DukeGuy- ♂ (49 bytes) () 12/16/2006 postreply 20:41:08

• 回复：american men look big, but they cannot last long, u should -Blacky- ♀ (6 bytes) () 12/16/2006 postreply 20:49:21

• of course, i can :-). -DukeGuy- ♂ (180 bytes) () 12/16/2006 postreply 22:15:29