I'm glad that katie and martin chose the right thing for themsel

I don't think that it's Martin's fault in this relationship. He was a bit self-centered. He expected an independant wife with an education background that he could proud of. However, the reality changed him. He firstly went to a romantic notion, fell in love with a beautiful Chinese girl. After he brought her here, he imposed all his expectation on her, disappointingly, she didn't satisfy him. Martin was wrong about not being very respectful to his wife's own will but being very forceful. In another word, it's not love but selfishness.

Katie tried and was exhausted and hurt. Living with such a man is not a great life for her, actually not for Martin, too.

I'm sure if Martin met *****. all meet his expectation, he would be a good hu*****and. Relationship is very hard. Relationships last is not because of passion but forgiveness and tolerance. Martin certainly doesn't have those for Katie.

When two people together is not a good match, they should stop torturing each other.

Good luck to both of them.

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• I'm totally with you. Martin learned Chinese and was good at it. -sfla- ♀ (377 bytes) () 12/08/2006 postreply 16:21:55

• Right on! -blhw72- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/08/2006 postreply 16:24:24

• Hi, what have you been up to? -sfla- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/08/2006 postreply 16:37:13

• It is not a great match. -maggiemay_pei- ♀ (460 bytes) () 12/08/2006 postreply 17:10:59

• Some western men do have that type of "Qing Jie", my lg thinks -lingcave- ♀ (52 bytes) () 12/08/2006 postreply 17:18:39

• I have that "Qing Jie" as well, but for Indian girl -MaggieMay_Pei- ♀ (273 bytes) () 12/08/2006 postreply 17:44:03

• I have "qing Jie " for the look and manner as little JFK :) -lingcave- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/08/2006 postreply 17:48:09

• My lg is on the oposite, I am the first Asain woman -gzlady- ♀ (138 bytes) () 12/08/2006 postreply 20:11:48

• I was the first Chinese woman my Lg ever met or date before -lingcave- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/08/2006 postreply 22:05:12

• we got married. He only knew them in the book or movies -lingcave- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/08/2006 postreply 22:06:55

• Now, he meets many of them every year we go back to China -lingcave- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/08/2006 postreply 22:08:55

• and wonders why I am not like most of them. He said my temper -lingcave- ♀ (31 bytes) () 12/08/2006 postreply 22:11:54

• Haha, What is the Chinese women's temper? Good or bad? -gzlady- ♀ (92 bytes) () 12/09/2006 postreply 07:38:06