Honey, even this guy has Pierce Brosnan's looks,

an ex-xxx star is no no...Never let sensibility leads your sense. Even the guy goes to hosptial for testing, there is a big chance that you will not get the truth if he decides not to tell. These days, Data Privacy(HIPPA) in healthcare prevents unauthorized people to access medical information of the patient, which means he can choose to keep the informaiton to himself not be released to anyone else, even his spouse or parents. Be careful with casual sex, especially these days.