我已经不再期待生日的到来，因为我知道生命只会越来越短暂。但是每一个结婚纪念日，我的内心总是充满了喜悦和感恩。今生今世，我被上帝深深的祝福了，我是一位蒙福之人。我知道我生命中陪伴我最长的你，我们一定会相伴到永远。22年的人生岁月，我体会到了什么是相濡以沫的感情，我感受到了什么是相依为命的日子。
我们像大多数普通的夫妻一样，经历过无数次的争吵，甚至感觉过婚姻的痛苦。可以每一次在人生最艰难的时刻，我们总是携手前行，彼此鼓励和安慰。我们彼此深信，不管我们的生活会发生什么样的事情，你我都会相互守护，不会分离。这也是我们在上帝面前的许诺。
虽然我们是那么的不同，来自不同的文化，有着不同的生活方式。在不断的争执和磨合之中，我们知道彼此都很难改变对方，我们学习接纳和包容彼此。因为我们知道彼此在一起的时候，我们不会是孤单一人，这比什么都更为重要。
虽然我们已经没有了年轻时候的激情和浪漫，但是每一天下班回到家里，我们彼此看到对方的时候，心里就有一份温暖和踏实的感觉，就好像彼此能够感觉到对方的呼吸。我想，这是一种“心有灵犀”的最好的诠释。
我们相互陪伴又相互依赖的22年的人生岁月，经历了很多暗淡的时光，也看到了人世间的天灾人祸和生离死别的沧桑巨变。这让我们更加感受到我们能够生活在一起，是多么的幸运。你是一个不善言谈，甚至不会表达的人，你总是默默的孤身一人，但是你对上帝深信不疑，虔诚祈祷。我能够感受到你内心的强大，我始终相信你是我生命中最好的选择。
虽然我们的青春年华已经远走，但是你的善良和单纯始终如一，让我对你从来没有任何防卫之心，只有依赖之感。我要感谢你对我一直以来的迁就和忍让；我要感谢你长年累月的努力工作。虽然你没有成名成家，但是你一直在为社会奉献你的最大价值。在一份极具权威的研究网站，全世界你在化学领域的排名是2%。这一份荣誉，足以值得我骄傲。
你总是在尽最大的努力为这个家庭付出。虽然你不能给我提供富裕的生活，但是你一定会给予我你的所有，因为曾经的你为了我不顾死亡的危险，拼命挽救我的生命。从你身上，我看到了许多人性的光辉，你让我在努力成为一位好人。
如果生命还有来世，我一定会坚定不移的再一次选择你，选择你做我的人生伴侣。人生有很多的苦难，可是如果能够拥有一份执子之手，与子偕老的感情，就是一种最大的祝福。
Weeding aniversary message: I am not looking forward to my birthday's arrival, because I know that life is only getting shorter. But every wedding anniversary, my heart is always filled with joy and gratitude. In this lifetime, I have been deeply blessed by God, and I am a blessed person. I know that you, who have been with me for the longest time in my life, will always be with me forever. In our 22 years of life, I have experienced what it means to have a mutual love, and I have felt what it means to depend on each other.
Like most ordinary couples, we have gone through countless arguments and even felt the pain of marriage. But every time, in the most difficult moments of life, we always move forward hand in hand, encouraging and comforting each other. We deeply believe in each other and know that no matter what happens in our lives, we will protect and never separate from each other. This is also our promise before God.
Although we are so different, coming from different cultures and having different lifestyles, in the constant disputes and adjustments, we know that it is difficult for each other to change. We learn to accept and tolerate each other because we know that when we are together, we will not be alone, which is more important than anything else.
Although we no longer have the passion and romance of our youth, every day when we return home from work, when we see each other, we feel a warmth and sense of security, as if we can feel each other's breath. I think this is the best interpretation of "hearts connected as one."
In our 22 years of life, we have accompanied and depended on each other. We have experienced many bleak times and witnessed the ups and downs of the world, including natural disasters, man-made disasters, and the separation of life and death. This makes us feel even more fortunate to be able to live together. You are not good at speaking, and you may not express yourself, but you always believe in God and pray devoutly. I can feel your inner strength, and I always believe that you are the best choice in my life.
Though our youth is gone，your kindness and simplicity are always the same, and I have no defense against you, only a sense of dependence. I want to thank you for your accommodation and tolerance towards me all these years, and I want to thank you for your years of hard work. Although you have not achieved fame and fortune, you have been contributing your greatest value to society. In a highly authoritative research website, your ranking in the field of chemistry is in the top 2% in the world. This honor is enough to make me proud.
You always make the greatest effort to contribute to our family. Although you cannot provide me with a wealthy life, you will definitely give me everything you have, because you once risked your life to save me. From you, I see the radiance of humanity, and you make me strive to be a good person.
If there is another life, I will definitely choose you again without hesitation, and choose you to be my life partner. Life has many difficulties, but if we can have a love that holds each other's hand and grows old together, it is the greatest blessing.
