Are you going to be angry if you are a chinese wife?

My wife is Korean, now staying at home taking care of kids. My younger brother in China is doing well, but not as good as me. I discussed with my wife about sending some money to him every month. She said no since I just start to do well. I was thinking 300$ is nothing for me, but means a lot to my brother who is earning his salary. I was tired of discussing with her, so I have been use my company's check to send the money. It has been a year now. Yesterday she found out. She pissed off. I shrugged it off, what the big deal? Now she is writing to me, accusing me cheating on her. In the mood of revenge, she sent checks with equal amount of money to her elder brother and parents in Korea. Her parents did give us some help when we got married and they are doing extremely well. Their apartment in Seoul worths 1 million US dollors and they paid it off. Her brother is a former banker and choose not to work after early retirement since IMF several years ago. So in my mind, they do not need any financial aid from me. My wife is making such a fuss of me sending money to my brother behind her back. I really do not understand. This is what DaGe should do in China. If you were my wife, will you do the same? Is she trying to control me? She always want to work independently, but it will be too hard on our small children. Anyway, if she works, her salary will only bring in few hundreds after paying day care, etc and paying tax with my bracket. So I pursuaded her to quit. She can work after the children grow up a little bit. I am so mad at her being so fussy. I had several thoughts of dumping her and start all over again with a chinese woman.

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• 坑，鉴订完毕 -boredatwork- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/20/2006 postreply 08:49:16

• If you were you wife, I will do the same. it is not about money -feidu- ♀ (83 bytes) () 11/20/2006 postreply 09:26:17

• correction: If I were you wife, I will do the same. -feidu- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/20/2006 postreply 09:29:02

• He did ask and she said No -Eveline- ♀ (97 bytes) () 11/20/2006 postreply 09:57:22

• 我觉得这不是给谁给多少钱的问题，而是你在你老婆背后 -菲妈妈- ♀ (520 bytes) () 11/20/2006 postreply 10:02:45

• 回复：我觉得这不是给谁给多少钱的问题，而是你在你老婆背后 -mdking- ♂ (146 bytes) () 11/21/2006 postreply 06:19:23

• 回复：Are you going to be angry if you are a chinese wife? -LoveUrself- ♀ (729 bytes) () 11/20/2006 postreply 18:02:29