思维的方式,情绪的控制,行为的决断,都是可以训练的。

另外,我经常用的巴尔的摩的Desiderata也是控制我思维和行为的一个GU胶。

每当我心烦意乱时,定下心来,思索一下我下面应该怎么做,做什么。

GO PLACIDLY amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.

Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit.

If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.

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Absolutely! Totally agree! -LifeIsBeautiful3- 给 LifeIsBeautiful3 发送悄悄话 LifeIsBeautiful3 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/17/2020 postreply 20:24:57

yes... well said -喜喜哈哈- 给 喜喜哈哈 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/17/2020 postreply 20:28:30

但是,你不能控制你的热血?不是要你老公帮忙吗? -hhtt- 给 hhtt 发送悄悄话 hhtt 的博客首页 (191 bytes) () 10/17/2020 postreply 20:48:58

你掺和啥。哈哈哈 -布兰雅- 给 布兰雅 发送悄悄话 布兰雅 的博客首页 (210 bytes) () 10/17/2020 postreply 20:52:14

哈哈哈,小布美美,我是看错了标题? -hhtt- 给 hhtt 发送悄悄话 hhtt 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/17/2020 postreply 20:54:59

是啊! 他 -喜喜哈哈- 给 喜喜哈哈 发送悄悄话 (238 bytes) () 10/17/2020 postreply 21:12:10

Night night... movie time!!! -喜喜哈哈- 给 喜喜哈哈 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/17/2020 postreply 21:25:20

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