To Gia's husband and her living loved ones:

I have been through this process of losing loved one personally, and know how you lost you are feeling at this moment. Please do take this precious time to express your love to Gia and help her to let go with a peaceful farewell. Life doesn't end when breathing ends. Our spirit lives on and love lives on. She can hear you so please speak to her in soft voice, touch her gently in your most loving way - all these will sooth her and help her to be ready for the next journey. We living loved ones have to be ready to let her go then she can leave for next chapter of life in peace. Tell her in your own way that all shall be fine and you will forever cherish your time with her in this life journey. She can hear it. 

Once you said all, please do seek help from medical staff to give her medication to ease the restless before her departure. We may think the process is painful and we may wish she is alert, however, at this stage, body actually feels less and spirit is rising. Please try to accept the outcome even though it is beyond difficult and let our loved one rises in peace. This is the last thing we living ones can do for her. 

I also hope you will reach out for support when this journey passes, for your own well being and for continue loving this world as much as you had with Gia together before. We are all vulnerable, and we all need support hand when pain is beyond description. Let pain flow through you, then one day you can face life with smile again.... 

Best wishes from western Canada, 

Big hug, 

Rachel