他不爱你

我认为你是活在自己编织的幻想里。他再好，他可能喜欢你，可他并不爱你。你再好，可是你并不是他的意中人。爱是一种很奇妙的东西，是感动替代不了的。如果做不到愿堵服输的话，还是早点抽身。建议你尽早告诉他你的感受和期待，逃避是下下策。You should know the difference between a date and a girlfriend. A couple of my guy friends always bring dates to our gathering. But never introduce their dates as girlfriends. I have to say I usually don't take them seriously. Unless you guy friend introduces you as his girlfriend, you are nothing but a girl whom he hangs out with. it doesn't mean too much. You should not read too much into it.

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• yes, he used to introduce me as his girlfriend, -蝴蝶飛飛- ♀ (635 bytes) () 12/20/2007 postreply 17:20:00

• 哎呀你这糊涂人 -yymountains- ♀ (812 bytes) () 12/20/2007 postreply 17:46:44

• 我不只糊塗,我快成神經病了.好好好. -蝴蝶飛飛- ♀ (39 bytes) () 12/20/2007 postreply 17:59:08

• You are funny -lilly1234- ♀ (552 bytes) () 12/20/2007 postreply 18:06:32

• 謝謝大家的批評.我開始練習.不打電話,不找他了.給我點時間. -蝴蝶飛飛- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/20/2007 postreply 18:57:28

• enjoy your life, and it also helps reading some book about guys -lilly1234- ♀ (1340 bytes) () 12/21/2007 postreply 08:28:03

• 替蝴蝶说句公道话,大抵每个女孩子都得过这一关,或轻或重. -alazycatinsd- ♀ (328 bytes) () 12/20/2007 postreply 19:28:28

• 我觉得你的进展很好很正常，爱上一个人本来就需要一点时间。 -everafter- ♀ (28 bytes) () 12/20/2007 postreply 19:58:27

• 正常？一开始称女友，后来又不了、、说明什么？ -二月河～- ♀ (188 bytes) () 12/20/2007 postreply 20:25:44

• 其实大家心里都清楚怎么回事吧，只不过不想砸的太狠了吧 -蓝色记忆- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/20/2007 postreply 20:28:38

• I known he backed up, but he might just want to slow down -everafter- ♀ (167 bytes) () 12/20/2007 postreply 22:47:43