I responded to your that question in 中年just now.Check it

For your this question, she is not considerate by releasing her anger in the morning.
Believe me, I agree with you she is not right in a lot of things what you described. But what I am going to say is how you can make things better:
First, try to reconciliate before go to sleep. Don't let anger pass through night.(基督徒讲不可含怒到日落）。
In term of solving the problem. I have to say you could use a more positive approach. Your approach seems just surpressing her because you are tired and upset. You should talk with her calmly. Sometimes even you don't mean it, say sorry and let her know you love her.

Next time, when some issue happens, remember to use humor to solve problem. It is hard, but always try what humorous way you can approach the problem before you let the critisizing words come out of your mouth.

No body want to be critisized, right? If you want your message get crossed, you must challenge yourself to adopt a more efficient way to communicate it. Hope you understand what you say.

Think about this, if your Mom is your kid, and she is just like that. Even you yell at her thousands of times, she will still be like that because of her age, and experience. what will you do? Would you rather be mad and hurt each other or be smart about it?