So...so...so JEALOUS..what should I do?

I guess it's because I am not confident enough. And I think he is too good to be true. He is athletic, handsome, nice, educated, knowledgeable, has great gift in photography, loves kids, and so funny! So...I am so jealous...not jealous of him but a lot of girls around him...

Although I can tell that he doesn't have a girlfriend right now, I have no idea where he is heading to. I even introduced him a girl and then the girl added him as a friend in facebook...etc...I started to be jealous...Jeez..jealousy is not fun at all..

And because he posted a lot of his pictures on his facebook...even some random girls added him as a friend. I am speechless..I think he is no doubt a very popular guy and can't understand why he is still single...maybe it is true that he is going abroad to do some missionary job...no kidding..

All I can do is to wait and see how things go on its own way. It seems to me that a lot of stories here on this board started from a classical and romantic falling-in-love-for-the-first-sight kind of thing. I am afraid I wasn't attractive enough to get him slip into the "love river" that day in the party. At least his eyes were not on me all the time, and worse of all, he didn't even sit by the same table with me. Miserable enough huh?!

If you are into someone who seems so good, shall I just give it up, considering I am not like a "guo se tian xiang" or even can't be called a eye-catching beauty. Gosh, I can't take it no more. The one I had a big crush on long time ago was taken away by my friend instantly, which also happened long time ago. I can't stand seeing another case happening around me again. If he is going to be taken, I'd rather he's taken by someone I don't know.

How can you not be jealous when your bf or hu*****and is such a good catch/or handsome and popular in general?

I know there's not even a single stroke in a-thousand-stroke character and I am not married and may be wired to be here. But I don't want to be identified in other websites. I am pretty sure here will be a safer place. Thanks for bearing with me and my English. I want to know why I am so easy to get jealous and is that normal? How to get rid of jealousy? It is kind of painful...

Thanks..

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• 如果他喜欢你的话。你应该为你有这么好的男友而骄傲自豪。如果 -atthecross- ♀ (110 bytes) () 11/26/2007 postreply 21:39:56

• 回复：如果他喜欢你的话。你应该为你有这么好的男友而骄傲自豪。如果 -happynomad- ♀ (92 bytes) () 11/26/2007 postreply 22:37:37

• tell him that you like him:) -丰色- ♀ (257 bytes) () 11/26/2007 postreply 22:55:42

• I don't think it works though...gotta wait 4 a good timing... -wanttodate- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/27/2007 postreply 03:05:06

• 回复 -lookatme..- ♀ (95 bytes) () 11/27/2007 postreply 03:31:36

• 没法帮你，这辈子也没运气见到这么完美滴男银，俺见过 -smiling_face- ♀ (38 bytes) () 11/27/2007 postreply 03:42:38

• Hehehe.... You are funny. But what you said is bloody true. -LittleHer- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/27/2007 postreply 07:12:36

• think he might be a gay. -小妹妹~~- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/27/2007 postreply 04:44:35

• hmmmm.... -LittleHer- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/27/2007 postreply 07:13:28

• Maybe I should as him...as a complement..or joke... -wanttodate- ♀ (394 bytes) () 11/27/2007 postreply 12:14:44

• I meant....:ask"him...when there is a chance.. -wanttodate- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/27/2007 postreply 12:16:10

• 遇到这种男的，俺的第一反应就是离得越远越好！ -麻辣豆- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/27/2007 postreply 07:47:12

• 其实抓住这个男的练练手段也不错,不需要望风而逃 -我不- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/27/2007 postreply 09:27:45

• 还是顺其自然吧，如果他不是那么into you,妒嫉只能使你自己难受 -臭臭妈妈- ♀ (30 bytes) () 11/27/2007 postreply 07:51:44

• This is not jealousy, it is INSECURE. -acme- ♀ (462 bytes) () 11/27/2007 postreply 08:51:04

• 同意,战战兢兢如履薄冰,大概就是这种感觉了,建议多看看V吴尔夫的那些刻薄文字 -我不- ♀ (25 bytes) () 11/27/2007 postreply 09:19:39

• 同感，灰姑娘的故事其实是瞎编。 -Gp88- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/27/2007 postreply 09:21:38

• Right on, I always tell my daughter that she needs to be -gzlady- ♀ (14 bytes) () 11/27/2007 postreply 09:46:41

• Ok...I will be...as much as I can... -wanttodate- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/27/2007 postreply 12:09:02