T小姐的择偶条件:7位数

昨晚看到论坛上大家讨论dating男方的收入条件。让我想起几年前认识的T小姐。她是我的闺密的好友。我的闺密是位年青有为的律师。T小姐个子高,人非常漂亮,衣服首饰都高档得体。她在一公司做marketing. 同时和几个人合伙开了个高级美容院。她为人开朗活泼好交际。当年追求她的男士真的很多也很不错。光我知道的就有企业家,医生,律师 和banker.

记得有一年T小姐过生日开party.她租了一条私人游艇。 谁要来她的生日party是要提前买票的。我那天因为给一位要回国的女朋友送行没去。我们几个女朋友在rainbow room跳舞吃宵夜。那企业家朋友跑来捧晚场。我问他T小姐的生日party开的如何。他说人去的很多,优秀的男生很多,T小姐收到花摆在船上很大一片。

过了一年有次和闺密吃饭时问起T小姐,闺密告知T小姐言“年收入6位数到处都是,要找就找个7位数的”。我当时的BF(现在的LG)听后自嘲,他连追求T小姐的资格都没有。(他当时年收入9万,不够6位数)

又过了两年,我结婚生子忙于个人生活少了很多社交活动。闺密到我家看新生儿时告知T小姐也有了baby.LG 马上问“does the lucky one really have 7 digit income?". 闺密回道"he has upper 6 digit income. a successful business man". 正当LG无话可说时,闺密又道“there is one problem. she is just his lover. He will support the baby but won't marry her..."那又为何呢?”because he's already married!"

Be careful what you wish, it might come true...

PS: when I married my LG, his income is 2/3 of mine. 3 years later, his income has tripled.

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wow! back then, you already made $135,000.... -feimama- 给 feimama 发送悄悄话 feimama 的博客首页 (73 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 07:29:20

那我就得跳楼了!一分钱不挣,还不少花。 :(((( -梦回大唐- 给 梦回大唐 发送悄悄话 梦回大唐 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 07:47:30

haha, quit it! stay-at-home-mom makes about $130k a year! -feimama- 给 feimama 发送悄悄话 feimama 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 07:50:20

Income means nothing to a person's true value -b_jing- 给 b_jing 发送悄悄话 b_jing 的博客首页 (359 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 08:05:05

Why do lawyers always give people such a bad image? -臭臭妈妈- 给 臭臭妈妈 发送悄悄话 臭臭妈妈 的博客首页 (32 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 08:18:15

Yes, there are a lot good ones. I will write another story when -b_jing- 给 b_jing 发送悄悄话 b_jing 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 08:23:17

After reading lots of the posts in this forum, I keep -gzlady- 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (297 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 07:42:04

I'm with you! -梦回大唐- 给 梦回大唐 发送悄悄话 梦回大唐 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 07:44:46

thanks, then I know I won't be too lonely here :)) -gzlady- 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 07:50:04

I am with you too. -小桃子妈- 给 小桃子妈 发送悄悄话 小桃子妈 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 08:36:55

I am with you! -feimama- 给 feimama 发送悄悄话 feimama 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 07:48:13

I am happy to know that :))) -gzlady- 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 07:51:05

that's why I post this story... -b_jing- 给 b_jing 发送悄悄话 b_jing 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 07:48:55

well, you did not only tell one story, but also how much you -feimama- 给 feimama 发送悄悄话 feimama 的博客首页 (26 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 07:51:29

Yes, I understood. Everyone has different attitude -gzlady- 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (16 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 07:53:54

Me three !! -MaggieMay_Pei- 给 MaggieMay_Pei 发送悄悄话 MaggieMay_Pei 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 07:56:56

Thank you, Maggie :))) -gzlady- 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 07:58:32

I think the same way as you do. So are you implying I am old?:( -smiling_face- 给 smiling_face 发送悄悄话 smiling_face 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 08:03:21

No, i don't dear to do that :)))), i just thought it -gzlady- 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (204 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 08:10:53

I just realize i am old :) -feidu- 给 feidu 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 08:08:30

Of course, you are not, I know my daughter would think -gzlady- 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (23 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 08:13:33

gzlady, I am old and I am with you -lucky_wife- 给 lucky_wife 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 08:17:05

thanks, lucky wife. I stay home today, and was going -gzlady- 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 (241 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 08:23:20

I am with you too.I am acturally supporting my hubby now -poohbear222- 给 poohbear222 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 08:39:39

If T is a lawyer, why she is doing marketing -lucky_wife- 给 lucky_wife 发送悄悄话 (151 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 08:11:16

My understanding is that Miss T was trying to find someone -臭臭妈妈- 给 臭臭妈妈 发送悄悄话 臭臭妈妈 的博客首页 (24 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 08:19:35

T is not a lawyer, her friend is. -b_jing- 给 b_jing 发送悄悄话 b_jing 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 08:20:40

read it again and realized my mistake -lucky_wife- 给 lucky_wife 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 08:23:42

我能够理解如果一位女士自己属于挣高工资的, -臭臭妈妈- 给 臭臭妈妈 发送悄悄话 臭臭妈妈 的博客首页 (135 bytes) () 10/01/2007 postreply 08:14:12

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