I think you questions are bit too personal.

Most of the Chinese women who married other race are ordinary people, at least, it is true for my case. In U.S., there is only 1% Chinese, while the white population is 74%. Unless you are working for a Chinese business, than I assume most your co-workers are from other race. You don't view them as Aliens, devils, angels, or Gods, do you? They are just human being like our Chinese, not better or worse. Therefore the Chinese women who happen to marry them are the regular people like yourself. I wonder is this make sense to you.