Come on, I think you are too sensitive.

I married a white guy, and some of my female friends also married white guys. I don't think that we have any bit of quality fit in the definition of "cheap women". Who does a Chinese woman choose to marry is a personal issue. I am software developer (fancy name for programmer), and I am the only female in my team, I have never heard any guy said anything about Chinese women being cheap. There are a few of them did say my hu*****and get a good deal, and there is a guy went to my party, and told my hu*****and that he is a lucky man. They might just being polite, but I know none of them think of me as "cheap".

I think your friends might just playing with you, they know you are sensitive to that subject, so they on purpose to get you upset. Another reason might be some racism in you circle; they do believe Asian is inferior to the white. If these people are making this kind of comment openly in the office, that can be classify as "harassment" and "racist", you can talk to your manager about that. I bet they will get in some trouble.

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• Come on! You are not in a men's circle. How do you know what are -qaz123456- ♂ (506 bytes) () 09/13/2006 postreply 09:20:37

• I didn't mean to be judgemental. If I happened to offend you, I -gzlady- ♀ (18 bytes) () 09/13/2006 postreply 11:25:34