I had a pre-nup. The purpose of it originally is

that my by then American hu*****and wanted me to stay in marriage for certain years since he had certain amount of assets before we got married. 他overall是个很nice, laid-back的人，我们的prenup在过了5年后就没有任何意义了，因为那是他的要求。他以为过了5年，如果我不离开他，就不会离开他。所以，pre-nup的初衷是保护有钱一方的assets, 当然，我的仅对于在美国的jms. 

但我现在对pre-nup有了新的想法，即使双方不是high-profiled, 有一个pre-nup也很好，just in case, the two of you get divorce, with asset allocation after seperation stated early in a pre-nup, the divorce won't go a nasty way. Believe me, I said that with my heart, divorce is not fun especially you have custody and money involved. It is a battle not just a fight. 

Many chinese women feel hard to take a pre-nup, I can understand that. It's the cultural difference. But put yourself in his shoe and ask yourself if you want to have your assets protected before you enter into an interacial marriage? It has nothing to do with how much he loves you. 退到底线来说，如果你的future hu*****and是条大鱼，你的这根线还真得放长一点。因为men would change. They are not stupid, they are human made of blood. pre-nup is only a thing for that moment. It can always be amended or revoked. 

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• 不错, 祝福玫瑰!! -桃花好运- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/16/2014 postreply 08:05:06

• Thank you. I need luck.:) -roses- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/16/2014 postreply 08:09:36

• 个人觉得找老公不要有放长线钓大鱼的想法，嫁的是这个人 -aha123- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/16/2014 postreply 08:09:36

• 别捣乱，好不容易作个清高状 -aha123- ♀ (0 bytes) () 04/16/2014 postreply 08:17:41