You should get ready for a divorce. It's not the end of world

It will be a good thing for youself and kid. You son is living in an unbalanced family which is harmful for his personality growth. You should be strong. The best thing is that you don't have to worry about money.

Try to work out in Gym. Find a trust lawyer and financial planner. Get your retirement, son's college and life start up funding ready. Then take your son move to a new place with good school then start your new life again.

You hu*****and is not trustful. The emotion you have righ now will eventually eat you with cancer or other disease. Why treat yourself like dirt?

Good luck!