You need to find out yourself.

My hubby loves me and I know it for sure. If you can not tell it means you don'tknow him well yet. Don make a rush decision. You should try to work out with your hubby. Normally good guys will not seduce married woman. If things don't work out with your hubby there is lot of fish in th sea you don't have to be with someone 20 years older than you.