Is that really your problem if you just keep your finances separ

My bf has no retirement either, and no financial sense. But I don't consider it my problem. I stay with him because I like him. But I may not want to actually get married, since I'm not interested in splitting half of my assets with him. However, since our money is separate, I don't care how ridiculously he spends his own money, even if he's already broke.

I certainly would not argue with him about it. It's his money, do whatever he wants. If you like him, stay with  him, if not, break up. Seems pretty straight forward. I personally won't let finances enter into the decision.

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• Thank you for your comments. We are engaged right now. -iforgotpwd- ♀ (130 bytes) () 11/12/2012 postreply 12:01:46

• Then definitely a big NO! -小大象- ♂ (0 bytes) () 11/12/2012 postreply 13:50:05

• I am curious -trotsky- ♀ (423 bytes) () 11/12/2012 postreply 12:51:54

• He is planning to move in with me next month -iforgotpwd- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/12/2012 postreply 12:55:43

• If I were you, I would be very cautious about this relationship -trotsky- ♀ (443 bytes) () 11/12/2012 postreply 13:05:25

• No, don't invite trouble into your own house. -AugustMom- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/12/2012 postreply 19:14:38

• CO：No, don't invite trouble into your own house. -olym- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/12/2012 postreply 19:28:49