Do not worry about the rebound relationship.
Before you can schedule a divorce hearing, you have to be separated for two years. My two year separation was over in May of this year.
Shortly after the separation 2 years ago, I briefly re-connected with a girl I dated in college. It lasted a couple months - we just weren't the same people we were 25 years ago. I guess this would have been the rebound relationship. :)
It was about 6 monthes after that that I got very active on Match. This is when I felt I was ready to restart my life. After a few months on Match, I did connect with someone and we actually dated for 8 months.
That's the summary of my dating life the last 2-1/2 years.
昨天我问了他那个八个月的关系为什么没work out, 他说那个女人is wonderful ,但后来发现两人有compatibility 的问题，女人很agreesive, 他很laid back. 后来决定分了。
在座眼力犀利。我有点怕怕了～～～。可是我是那种nothing or all 的。要我吊着他又不全部投入我做不到。
开始痛苦了～～。
