don't be afraid of youe kids will lose father...
if he is a good father, no matter what relationships between you two, he will show his love to them. just need to learn how to manage the relationships after the divoice. it is indeed a special skill, need to learn.
teh realities are, you will not forget about it...he will not stop it. plus you never truly loved him, what a big deal...
you may think he is finally started working, you should have a life could let you relax a bit. but I am so sorry to tell you, you don't have that luck....I mean, with this man, you will never have that luck.
MM, move on.... start to have a new life. any life could be better than the one you had, have, and will have...