回复:看在孩子的份上,我想过当什么都没发生,但是我发觉我做不到,至少我目前做不到,一想到

My wife had affair with a white guy last summar. For almost one year, even she has totally changed her behavior. But for me,我就没法平静,除了受伤还有恼火。这事就像一个结,估计就是现在强忍了,将来也会时不时的翻出来吵,我担心早晚还是会分开。Another way, some time, she said something to me, when I asked her later, she always denied what she said to me. Every day, when I think of this thing, it has occupied my thought. I suffered a lot. What I should to do. The parents from both sides always asked me to keep family for chilrden, I don't konw how long I will stand for this marriage?  

I think if you can't bear his behavior and you got suffer, you need to move on. But take some time to think about it. I am still thinking. Who can give me suggestion on this issue: How can we get recover from hurt? 

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To forgive her and also yourself. Second, time will help.回复:回复:看 -zhuzhuhamster- 给 zhuzhuhamster 发送悄悄话 zhuzhuhamster 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/27/2012 postreply 09:28:52

回复:To forgive her and also yourself. Second, time will help.回复:回 -officeaffair- 给 officeaffair 发送悄悄话 (120 bytes) () 05/27/2012 postreply 09:31:52

她应该换工作或调开,不能和那个男的在一起。LOL.我来给自己找建议,结果我给你建议了。 -yixinyian- 给 yixinyian 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/27/2012 postreply 09:41:01

回复:她应该换工作或调开,不能和那个男的在一起。LOL.我来给自己找建议,结果我给你建议了。 -officeaffair- 给 officeaffair 发送悄悄话 (187 bytes) () 05/27/2012 postreply 13:24:08

我比你更惨,我在他的电脑里看到他亲笔所写的juicy details.当场崩溃了。 -yixinyian- 给 yixinyian 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/27/2012 postreply 14:00:44

he keeps of journal of his prostituting? -chairmanmeow- 给 chairmanmeow 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/27/2012 postreply 19:47:41

回复:我比你更惨,我在他的电脑里看到他亲笔所写的juicy details.当场崩溃了。 -officeaffair- 给 officeaffair 发送悄悄话 (655 bytes) () 05/27/2012 postreply 19:55:56

抱抱!你要她换工作。她得做出选择,婚姻(你)重要还是这个工作重要。 -yixinyian- 给 yixinyian 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 05/27/2012 postreply 20:36:40

回复:抱抱!你要她换工作。她得做出选择,婚姻(你)重要还是这个工作重要。 -officeaffair- 给 officeaffair 发送悄悄话 (531 bytes) () 05/28/2012 postreply 07:37:04

回复:回复 -eastdragon- 给 eastdragon 发送悄悄话 (140 bytes) () 05/28/2012 postreply 13:02:33

回复:回复:回复 -officeaffair- 给 officeaffair 发送悄悄话 (528 bytes) () 05/28/2012 postreply 21:55:04

Open relationship? You get your lover she gets her own. -Julie116- 给 Julie116 发送悄悄话 Julie116 的博客首页 (52 bytes) () 05/27/2012 postreply 21:02:21

回复:Open relationship? You get your lover she gets her own. -officeaffair- 给 officeaffair 发送悄悄话 (385 bytes) () 05/28/2012 postreply 07:45:19

同病相怜,抱抱!我老公一直强调只是性没有爱。能分那么清吗?我发觉他是一个女的的常客, -yixinyian- 给 yixinyian 发送悄悄话 (63 bytes) () 05/27/2012 postreply 09:32:46

回复:同病相怜,抱抱!我老公一直强调只是性没有爱。能分那么清吗?我发觉他是一个女的的常客, -officeaffair- 给 officeaffair 发送悄悄话 (576 bytes) () 05/27/2012 postreply 09:42:53

不知道你太太一定要有3个男人是哪来的逻辑。虽然缘分让我嫁了老外,我骨子里也是很传统 -yixinyian- 给 yixinyian 发送悄悄话 (219 bytes) () 05/27/2012 postreply 10:06:46

回复:不知道你太太一定要有3个男人是哪来的逻辑。虽然缘分让我嫁了老外,我骨子里也是很传统 -officeaffair- 给 officeaffair 发送悄悄话 (388 bytes) () 05/27/2012 postreply 13:20:07

原谅,那是说起来容易。你已经被伤害了,不必为了老人孩子再强求自己承受更多。 -糖果果- 给 糖果果 发送悄悄话 糖果果 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 05/27/2012 postreply 10:56:30

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