女人的友谊大多是过份的words of affirmation.一旦有事,就是很脆弱的.

5 Love Language

Words of Affirmation

Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten.

Quality Time

In the vernacular of Quality Time, nothing says, “I love you,” like full, undivided attention. Being there for this type of person is critical, but really being there—with the TV off, fork and knife down, and all chores and tasks on standby—makes your significant other feel truly special and loved. Distractions, postponed dates, or the failure to listen can be especially hurtful.

Receiving Gifts

Don’t mistake this love language for materialism; the receiver of gifts thrives on the love, thoughtfulness, and effort behind the gift. If you speak this language, the perfect gift or gesture shows that you are known, you are cared for, and you are prized above whatever was sacrificed to bring the gift to you. A missed birthday, anniversary, or a hasty, thoughtless gift would be disastrous—so would the absence of everyday gestures.

Acts of Service

Can vacuuming the floors really be an expression of love? Absolutely! Anything you do to ease the burden of responsibilities weighing on an “Acts of Service” person will speak volumes. The words he or she most want to hear: “Let me do that for you.” Laziness, broken commitments, and making more work for them tell speakers of this language their feelings don’t matter.

Physical Touch

This language isn’t all about the bedroom. A person whose primary language is Physical Touch is, not surprisingly, very touchy. Hugs, pats on the back, holding hands, and thoughtful touches on the arm, shoulder, or face—they can all be ways to show excitement, concern, care, and love. Physical presence and accessibility are crucial, while neglect or abuse can be unforgivable and destructive.

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• 哈， 那还有四条可以去做，如果想把她”追“回来的话 -zyxlady- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/21/2012 postreply 19:37:03

• 要做其它4条,是要有行动有爱心的:)说话是最容易的:) -deep-sea- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/21/2012 postreply 19:38:40

• 我也看过这篇文章。但是我怎么记得这5条都是关于男女之间 -keer- ♀ (59 bytes) () 02/21/2012 postreply 19:44:09

• 不是说爱情的基础是友情吗?:) -deep-sea- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/21/2012 postreply 19:47:31

• 谁说的阿？乱说！ -知福惜福- ♀ (0 bytes) () 02/21/2012 postreply 20:37:03