回复：中年危机，请有经验的姐妹们帮忙看看

I totally understand the post. I am not sure how many moms here are having same feelings. In the past year, I've talked to many Chinese middle-aged moms. I saw they are doing the same house work as I am doing: taking care of children, cooking the dinner, laundry, house cleaning, etc.. I asked them if their hu*****ands help them or not. Most of them told me no way! They sleep through on Saturdays! what similar situations! Why only me complaining so much?! I complain my hu*****and doesn't help me out, doesn't spend much time on the kids, complain he doesn't earn enough money and I can stay home, etc. In a word, I want to get out of the marriage. I would live with my kids happier without him. He has no use at all!
But I am still hesitating to get the files and ask him to sign even he has said he would sign. Why? Why? Am I too weak? Am I too cowardice? Is the marriage still good for the kids? What can I do to make the marriage work? I am longing to find a person who loves me, understands me, and taking care of me.

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