I think the main conflict here is that most people believe good

来源: julie116 于 2012-02-17 10:12:09 [] [博客] [旧帖] [给我悄悄话] 阅读数 : (716 bytes)

of hard working, intelligence,ethical conduct...It is irrational and it conflicts with our common belief if someone achieved a "happily after" life only because she married a rich guy especially  when that involves cheating. I want to say life is conplicated, a lot of time it's a game of survival. You will see this a lot in the workplace. And when it is in the context a marriage, simple rules just don't not work so well all the time when we talk about human feelings and human needs. Being cynical does not change the rule, and does not make us stronger and happier... Sorry for my Chinglish:) My computer was crashed and I lost my Chinese typing system:(

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• 是啊, 咱不是闲人,实在不适合这个口水战. 回去上班了... -上哪去找soulmate- ♀ 给 上哪去找soulmate 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/17/2012 postreply 10:19:48

• have fun:) -julie116- ♀ 给 julie116 发送悄悄话 julie116 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/17/2012 postreply 10:26:14

• you missed the point, the main conflict here is that some ppl th -Kamioka- ♀ 给 Kamioka 发送悄悄话 Kamioka 的博客首页 (115 bytes) () 02/17/2012 postreply 10:18:36

• 没抓住重点，这个重点是：女人出轨都是男人的冷暴力，家庭公婆的虐待之因，所以可以接受，然后祝福她找到来了幸福！ -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/17/2012 postreply 10:21:56

• i think that's what I said, we believe we should achieve by our -julie116- ♀ 给 julie116 发送悄悄话 julie116 的博客首页 (68 bytes) () 02/17/2012 postreply 10:24:24

• 我看在KT也是个生存问题. 这神经得多坚强才能不怕被砸... :) -上哪去找soulmate- ♀ 给 上哪去找soulmate 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/17/2012 postreply 10:18:51

• haha -czpm- ♀ 给 czpm 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/17/2012 postreply 10:19:54

• totally agree. And it hurts:) -julie116- ♀ 给 julie116 发送悄悄话 julie116 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/17/2012 postreply 10:21:23

• 昨天好像是万绿斑竹发明了个新词：坛暴 -猫眼狗眼- ♀ 给 猫眼狗眼 发送悄悄话 猫眼狗眼 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/17/2012 postreply 10:22:55

• 她的帖去了家坛和中坛，不给咋个头破血流才怪了。这里好多了～～ -stone_cold_fox- ♀ 给 stone_cold_fox 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/17/2012 postreply 10:23:54

• 没事，生存下来了隔个两年可以写回忆录，把旧账再翻一遍哈哈 -zhuangqiushui- ♀ 给 zhuangqiushui 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/17/2012 postreply 10:32:59

• 有两种幸福不适合分享 -winterfreez- ♀ 给 winterfreez 发送悄悄话 (3329 bytes) () 02/17/2012 postreply 10:39:15

• 有道理哦，我在想如果你前面2个例子的主人公来这里发帖，她们会被捧呢还是被贬呢？ -知福惜福- ♀ 给 知福惜福 发送悄悄话 知福惜福 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/17/2012 postreply 10:41:36

• 可能会被膜拜。。。 -zhuangqiushui- ♀ 给 zhuangqiushui 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/17/2012 postreply 10:44:17

• 没分享都会常常被提出来讽刺一下,如果分享.....:) -winterfreez- ♀ 给 winterfreez 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/17/2012 postreply 10:47:53

• You're so sharp:) I am not so comfortable when people were so en -julie116- ♀ 给 julie116 发送悄悄话 julie116 的博客首页 (95 bytes) () 02/17/2012 postreply 11:06:48

• 估计故事没贴完就被砸成照片了，然后有人ＱＱＨ要找工作要签名照。。。 -Kamioka- ♀ 给 Kamioka 发送悄悄话 Kamioka 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/17/2012 postreply 11:04:48

• 哈哈:)) -winterfreez- ♀ 给 winterfreez 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/17/2012 postreply 13:24:39

• 小草莓,俺头晕了,找不到北啦....:)))) -winterfreez- ♀ 给 winterfreez 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 02/17/2012 postreply 10:54:45

• That's the rule for people with high SQ:) -julie116- ♀ 给 julie116 发送悄悄话 julie116 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/17/2012 postreply 10:45:50

• Guiliani 竞选总统的时候， 顾问们告诉他小三出身的夫人： -密码设置- ♀ 给 密码设置 发送悄悄话 (32 bytes) () 02/17/2012 postreply 16:27:12

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