其实如果我是你, 我的做法恐怕和你一模一样, 虽然我看到你的上一帖说到

回答: Marriage and me^眼泪十^2011-12-14 11:46:50

“If he was not intested in playing any role in the child's life, that was ok with me.  I would leave him alone.  If he wanted to see the child, he was already welcome.  Because it was my decision to keep the child, I would take the full responsibility and never ask him for child support. I wanted him to feel he had choices. He was not forced to do anything. He was not forced into a marriage. He was not trapped”的时候竟然有些为你觉得无奈。 不管他是什么样的人, 他当时的行为是不负责的,他既然选择不施加任何保护, 就应该充分预计后果, 并且有了后果后勇于承担的。  你一定是个内心坚强,有韧性,又有很多pride的女人。 这种情况下的这种想法, 不知道该为你喝彩, 还是叫屈。

很开心看到你们开心地生活在一起, 不管以什么方式, 只要内心平安就好。 祝福!

 

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