其实如果我是你， 我的做法恐怕和你一模一样， 虽然我看到你的上一帖说到

“If he was not intested in playing any role in the child's life, that was ok with me.  I would leave him alone.  If he wanted to see the child, he was already welcome.  Because it was my decision to keep the child, I would take the full responsibility and never ask him for child support. I wanted him to feel he had choices. He was not forced to do anything. He was not forced into a marriage. He was not trapped”的时候竟然有些为你觉得无奈。 不管他是什么样的人， 他当时的行为是不负责的，他既然选择不施加任何保护， 就应该充分预计后果， 并且有了后果后勇于承担的。  你一定是个内心坚强，有韧性，又有很多pride的女人。 这种情况下的这种想法， 不知道该为你喝彩， 还是叫屈。

很开心看到你们开心地生活在一起， 不管以什么方式， 只要内心平安就好。 祝福！

 

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• 蓝妹妹,请教一下,美国有多少个州,同居和婚姻基本享有同等的权利? -deep-sea- ♀ (340 bytes) () 12/14/2011 postreply 13:05:47

• 你可以看看我以前的一个旧贴， 链接在里面。 -蓝枪鱼- ♀ (64 bytes) () 12/14/2011 postreply 13:11:35

• 看了一下,简单地说,同居还是远不如婚姻好.分开的时候第一步还要证明是事实婚姻 -deep-sea- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/14/2011 postreply 13:25:05