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本帖于 2023-03-29 11:53:27 时间, 由普通用户 elfie 编辑
回答: 原生家庭对人的影响是注定的寂寞的烟花2023-03-29 08:19:07

Of course people are influenced by their background, their caregivers, parents or even siblings.

But you cannot predict a person's growth path and where he/ she would be by their orginal families.

The proof is Abraham Lincoln had siblings but we didn't know much about them.

Weren't they raised by the same parents or step parents? Weren't they equally poor as children?

People's life trajectory is quite random sometimes. The people they met outside of their families are also

important influencers. And even siblings don't have exact life paths. So they got different outcomes.

Gender is another thing that defines a person's life path. Men and women are not being treated equally in

social, economical and culture aspects. So you really cannot predict how far a person can go in her career and 

achivement if it's a girl. There are three female supreme court judges. Why not anybody else then? 

Where are most of the girls ended up with? Probably at a job that is traditionally set for women, a teacher,

a nurse, or a caregiver, a mom. They are not being told to go that way explicitly. But that's how life works.

Men were hunters, women were gatherers, pickers, cooks at home. They still are even today.

 

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我在讲原生家庭对个体命运的影响和关系,其实中国的智慧和文化早有总结:龙生龙,凤生凤。 -寂寞的烟花- 给 寂寞的烟花 发送悄悄话 寂寞的烟花 的博客首页 (158 bytes) () 03/29/2023 postreply 12:56:23

烟花,如果你把辉煌的标杆定在那是传世名人上,那我们这些芸芸众生就是蝼蚁。 -桃子苹果- 给 桃子苹果 发送悄悄话 桃子苹果 的博客首页 (256 bytes) () 03/29/2023 postreply 17:29:03

自荐我刚写的回贴: -糯米粥- 给 糯米粥 发送悄悄话 糯米粥 的博客首页 (129 bytes) () 03/29/2023 postreply 17:31:21

刚看了。对的。 -桃子苹果- 给 桃子苹果 发送悄悄话 桃子苹果 的博客首页 (279 bytes) () 03/29/2023 postreply 17:54:51

谢谢你们两位。 -寂寞的烟花- 给 寂寞的烟花 发送悄悄话 寂寞的烟花 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 03/30/2023 postreply 05:12:42

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