If he loved her,

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回答: 愿意时时在一起的就是爱吗?禾口2021-02-25 05:27:15

 

he'd have made sure that she'd be financially taken care of after he is gone.

She was not taking responsibility for herself.  Feeling fallen in love does not obviate one's responsibility for her own financial well being.

Someone once asked: what love has to do with it?

(The bliss she was after is in essence the condition under which she can be "care-free*".  In reality, such thing does not exist, or carries a hefty price.)

*mentally, even though she was busy physically taking care of him.  For some, the mental burden is unbearable, they'd rather labor phyiscally than mentally burdened.

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你比我说的要直接点 -甜酒甜- 给 甜酒甜 发送悄悄话 甜酒甜 的博客首页 (177 bytes) () 02/25/2021 postreply 06:13:14

是啊,不过我这里不是为了分辨对错。就是验证下爱的定义。:) -禾口- 给 禾口 发送悄悄话 禾口 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/25/2021 postreply 06:29:40

The bliss in which you and him and the air you breath. -One1618- 给 One1618 发送悄悄话 (408 bytes) () 02/25/2021 postreply 06:47:30

她就是表达受伤和觉得过往日子变得很虚无和没有意义。我不关注财产本身。为她的感受难过。 -禾口- 给 禾口 发送悄悄话 禾口 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 02/25/2021 postreply 09:15:56

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