你表达得真好， 对人性有深刻的认识。 最近我还读到这段， 也是你这些话的注脚：

“The young wife and mother, at the head of some establishment, with a kind husband to shield her from the adverse winds of life, with wealth, fortune and position, has a certain harbor of safety, secure against the ordinary ills of life.

But to manage a household, have a desirable influence in society, keep her friends and the affections of her husband, train her children and servants well, she must have rare common sense, wisdom, diplomacy, and a knowledge of human nature. ”

http://historymatters.gmu.edu/d/5315/

 

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