亲近。因为老妈信任我们,不给予我们任何压力,只要她不发火,她是天底下最好的妈。我妈性格其实硬,但不gossip,不喜欢对外人说家事,她不nurturing, 个性更像男人.
反而我老爸,事业很成功,very competent, one of the smartest and most capable guys I ever know in my life. 老爸是那种只要make up his mind and he will make things happen. 但他确有很controlling, abusive的一面,私下sentimental, 反而像个女人。
我和我弟的一生都在寻求老爸的认可。因为老爸的脸永远不会对我们慈祥地展开。永远we are not good enough for him.