How do you accept thyself? 怎样接受你自己。

Someone asked me on Quora, how do you accept yourself for not having the eye colour you have? This is interesting. It expands over to the humanity and psychology side. How do we learn to accept ourselves? When do we accept ourselves? When do we change for the better? How to we know the difference. To have the wisdom to know the difference, lies in our experience. The experience comes from making mistakes. Some mistakes are worth making than others...

As asian immigrants with Chinese parents. I have been treated quite harshly growing up. So have been many others. The difference lies in the childhood environment. Some have not have the nurturing parents to give the child the confidence in what they are meant to do. Some parents themselves are either in marital wars, or fight in front of their kids, or are bad communicators. Or they may not even love themselves. However, it's up to the child who grew up to be adult to overcome those tough upbringings... (learn more in the video)

I hope you are blessed to have folks that raise you to love yourself for who you are, and still have the drive to achieve more.

 

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• 接受自己确实很重要， 我觉得接受自己的identity 也是同样重要的。 -gzlady- ♀ (0 bytes) () 07/08/2019 postreply 19:59:03

• 是的，如果连自己都不能好好的接受自己，那么别人又怎么可能接受你呢？ -丹麦有我- ♀ (214 bytes) () 07/09/2019 postreply 05:52:17