i moved to an apt. building with heavy security, he

found out and had a fight with security guards. 3 months later, i thought i was safer, so i had an evening walk around my apt., he was there waiting for me. It was really scary, he said he'll kill himself. I had to talk to him softly for whole evening to stablized his emotion. The next day I went to travel and lived in another country for a couple of yrs.

 

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• 这种人的暴怒是接受不了失败吧 -军大衣- ♀ (47 bytes) () 11/18/2017 postreply 08:42:45

• 嗯，犯罪心理学这么说，其实和受害人是谁关系不大，变态男不能忍受失去control, power... -GoGym- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/18/2017 postreply 08:46:22

• 所以，还是回归本贴主题，不单要防范暴力倾向，还要防备control freak -军大衣- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/18/2017 postreply 08:53:34

• control freak平时未必有暴力倾向 -军大衣- ♀ (107 bytes) () 11/18/2017 postreply 08:54:25

• 是的是的，这两个有overlap, 但也不一定都一样 -GoGym- ♀ (0 bytes) () 11/18/2017 postreply 08:55:32

• probably never had girls dumped him, always he --worldance-- ♀ (45 bytes) () 11/18/2017 postreply 08:47:30