切记,切记。(并非所有)男人天性不爱受到束缚,你已经有了个孩子,这样一个客观事实,就意味着你不会去束缚他。因此,这是一个大大的PLUS!
你看seek arrangement,也就是包养网站上,都说“no string attached”。但是,这句话是谁说的?没错,是男人说给女人的听的。也就是说,“是我想要no string attatched”。因为很简单啊,那些包养网站上的老头们,他们拥有强势的,主导的话语权与议价权。
因为我有强势的议价权,因此我可以提出“我想要什么什么”,而不是你想要。
so, for men, in default mode, they want to have a relationship, but no string attached. I mean, in default mode.
if women push too hard to get married, you will scare them away. but if you are smart enough, and DONT do that, then you will have a ocean of fish to pick.
only by doing so, then you suddenly turn the tables in your favour!!!!