感叹一下,果然不是一家人不进一家门。情商高的人,我们看不懂。(视频)

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别问我是如何找到的,反正就是碰巧看到。真的感叹,这对父母情商真的好高。

情商高的人,一般具有非常不错的沟通能力与技巧,词汇量也非常大。这对夫妻看起来至少属于中国中产阶级。

首先是这个当妈的,拍摄孩子的一些短视频,有一次意外逗她女儿玩,分散孩子注意力的时候给拍下来放到网上,居然意外爆红。还有,就是那个当爸的,有一句话非常好,就是他故意给孩子设置一些困难,或者说故意去为难孩子,逼迫孩子去动脑子,想办法去解决困难,还有就是把孩子当成朋友看。

而且这也符合“又一定经济能力,而且大人工作压力不很大的家庭的孩子,亲子互动比其他孩子多”的理论。

 

Rich children 'have superior vocabularies by age of five' 

Children living in wealthy households have far superior vocabularies and problem-solving skills than their poorer peers by the age of five, according to research prepared for Scottish ministers.


The ground-breaking study, which assessed the abilities of 14,000 youngsters, found a gap in academic ability between children from different socio-economic backgrounds has already opened up by the time they are three years old. 
At the age of five, youngsters with wealthier parents educated to degree level are on average 18 months ahead of their less well-off peers with their vocabulary. 
They are also 13 months ahead on problem-solving ability. The study found the gap in vocabulary ability widened between the ages of three and five. 
Children whose parents were educated to a lower level also tend to perform more poorly and are less likely to catch up either before or after they start attending school. 
The study, titled Growing Up in Scotland, also found that more than a third of children do low amounts of exercise and watch a lot of television, while more than two-thirds do not eat enough fruit and vegetables. 
It concludes that public spending should be focused on helping the most deprived children, with the intention of reducing the attainment gap between rich and poor. 
Angela Constance, the Scottish Children’s Minister, said: “This research will play a crucial role in informing what we need to do to improve the life chances for all of Scotland’s children. 
“A child’s chances in life begin to be shaped before they are even born. Our priority is to create a fairer start for all.” 
The study, conducted by the Scottish Centre for Social Research, has tracked the children from birth and aims to analyse how they develop over time given their backgrounds. 
It listed a series of factors that help children develop their vocabularies and problem-solving skills more quickly, apart from their parents’ wealth and qualifications. 
Among the elements than can have a positive impact on youngsters aged under five are their mothers attending antenatal classes and breastfeeding. They also tend to perform better if they go to a private nursery school. 
For children whose parents have no or lower qualifications, the study found poor early communication skills will likely persist through the preschool period with little or no relative improvement. 
The report said 13 per cent of five-year-olds have moderate-to-severe social, behavioural or emotional difficulties. 
More than a third reported low physical activity (38 per cent) and high “screen time” in front of a TV (39 per cent) 
Meanwhile, 35 per cent consumed snacks with a high sugar or fat content more than once a day, and 69 per cent lacked a varied fruit and vegetable diet. 
However, those children with good parents are up to 44 per cent less likely to suffer health and emotional problems, regardless of their socio-economic backgrounds. 
The parents of around one in ten five-year-olds have separated, with the incidence being highest in the first two years after the child’s birth. This results in higher levels of “home chaos” and poverty, the study found.




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孩子挺聪明的,也可爱,看她说开车的才是她爸爸那段太可爱了 -gzlady- 给 gzlady 发送悄悄话 gzlady 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/24/2016 postreply 12:16:45

不得不说,在日常生活中,会自己给自己找乐子解闷的人,本身心态就是比较开放 -五星红旗永不落- 给 五星红旗永不落 发送悄悄话 五星红旗永不落 的博客首页 (2070 bytes) () 09/24/2016 postreply 13:04:45

我喜欢桃姐讲的,可以对自己要求高点,对老公低点,对小孩更低, -OrangeBread- 给 OrangeBread 发送悄悄话 OrangeBread 的博客首页 (68 bytes) () 09/24/2016 postreply 13:21:07

都低点吧。特别是对我干儿子 -赖少是一只猫- 给 赖少是一只猫 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/24/2016 postreply 13:25:59

你放心,他刚游完自己team的比赛,关门睡大觉呐 -OrangeBread- 给 OrangeBread 发送悄悄话 OrangeBread 的博客首页 (97 bytes) () 09/24/2016 postreply 13:32:23

你会这样吗? 我copy你给我关于咱们生日的。 -dimple- 给 dimple 发送悄悄话 (729 bytes) () 09/24/2016 postreply 13:30:47

会,力争要求自己,其他人过的去就好啦。 -OrangeBread- 给 OrangeBread 发送悄悄话 OrangeBread 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/24/2016 postreply 13:34:45

看来蛮准的。:) -dimple- 给 dimple 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/24/2016 postreply 13:39:51

嗯, -OrangeBread- 给 OrangeBread 发送悄悄话 OrangeBread 的博客首页 (76 bytes) () 09/24/2016 postreply 13:42:05

力争要求自己的人,往往是那种“爱较劲“”的人。对自己要求高对别人是不一定,有的会很高,有的则不会。 -五星红旗永不落- 给 五星红旗永不落 发送悄悄话 五星红旗永不落 的博客首页 (371 bytes) () 09/24/2016 postreply 14:13:35

非常不喜欢这对父母与孩子的互动方式,对孩子缺乏最基本的平等和尊重意识。父母可以和孩子开玩笑,逗乐,但若常常得孩子伤心大哭其实 -淡紫色的夏季- 给 淡紫色的夏季 发送悄悄话 (690 bytes) () 09/24/2016 postreply 17:29:24

我站这儿!特别是那么小的小孩, 叫父亲“滚开!” 我觉得很过份 -螺丝螺帽- 给 螺丝螺帽 发送悄悄话 螺丝螺帽 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/24/2016 postreply 18:13:35

+1 -jjin09061999- 给 jjin09061999 发送悄悄话 jjin09061999 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/24/2016 postreply 21:34:05

无礼,粗鲁的一家人 -花睡去- 给 花睡去 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/24/2016 postreply 18:31:32

好粗暴啊。 -抱抱- 给 抱抱 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/24/2016 postreply 18:50:17

喔,不敢相信有那么多的人追捧这样的教育。 -blue005- 给 blue005 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/24/2016 postreply 20:43:24

可爱的孩子。父母差劲。父母应当教教孩子如何种花养草善待小动物,注重礼貌文明用语等。 -牛鲜花妹妹- 给 牛鲜花妹妹 发送悄悄话 牛鲜花妹妹 的博客首页 (0 bytes) () 09/24/2016 postreply 21:34:34

整个就一对二百五,这样逗孩子 -pcdummy- 给 pcdummy 发送悄悄话 pcdummy 的博客首页 (35 bytes) () 09/25/2016 postreply 02:16:33

其实大家的疑问片子里的爸爸都说了, 也要看孩子本身, 家里的环境和家人的互动。你给个缺乏爱和安全感的小孩讲是别人的孩子, 肯定愚 -lilywanda- 给 lilywanda 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/25/2016 postreply 02:46:57

天天举着录像机的生活,有些变味道 -lumom- 给 lumom 发送悄悄话 (0 bytes) () 09/25/2016 postreply 06:12:50

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