回答尹盈盈文体

尹盈盈问我：

你每次总是能遇到很优秀的男人，有很强的chemistry, both very physically compatible and satisfied to each other. ... 为什么每次总是无疾而终？ 是什么原因ended your previous relationships?

I don't want to be rude .. just want to learn from your experience ..

My answer:

1) I don't think you are rude at all at first.

2) the reason my last relationship ended because he and I had different views on some fundamental issues about family values. I more and more found things were not right after3-4 months of quite close relationship, even though he and I did enjoy having sex a lot. 

3) 很多人说女人因爱而性，有了爱才有性，我觉得也不一定，it is hard for me to hold myself if I feel he is sexually desirable for me, of course sex is based on the appealling or like feeling between each other. 甚至有时我觉得在上了床之后我才会Slowdown 和他慢慢相处，要不当我遇到有感觉的人时，前几次约会都想着sex, 他也想靠近你，我老扭扭捏捏的装着我都觉得难受。不如先快乐enjoy 一下再说。现在这个和我第三次时在床上开玩笑问我：" do you just use me for physical"?, 我一听乐了，回答”well you should really feel proud of your body, even I just use you for pgysical".

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