"所以晚餐后,我就说了“it is so much driving for me to take one hour go back to my home tonight(very late already), and take another one hour to drive back to downtown in heavy traffic again tomorrow morning.”, 他听后没说什么,10分钟后在他就要把我drop 在我的车上时,他问我他可不可以 propose一个 idea "
It's not something you want to say to a guy you just start dating.. The fact that he didn't respond right away showed that he was caught off guard also.