She is already in! She has been in a happy relationship with him for 4+ years - does that not earn him a 2nd chance? It's just a chance I am talking about. 
I agree with you all that she should ditch him if they just met online - no history whatsoever. Clearly they have deep feelings for each other, they share a good life so far. She can't just kick the guy to the curb as soon as she finds out that he has a problem.
"把自己搭进去?"
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                    一般关系刚开始尾巴都藏起来,她当然happy,慢慢这人的本性就露出来了,
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                    They had good time, but not anymore
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                    I didn't get that
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                    是的,我还非常爱他。请看我今天在主楼里新加的一段
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