Quite a few of you are disappointed in dating. Well, this is like playing a game. The more you do it, the better you are at it. But you may be just having a burnout. So in that case, take a break. Also remember that you/we may lose at the end of the game.
I would suggest that you don’t devote all of your time and energy on this. You should focus on yourself and your kid (if you have any) first. Make your life as good as it can be, whether or not you make a lot of money. So if you don’t find a man, you are still happy. And there are ways to make your life better. For example, if you don’t make a lot of money, you probably have some free time. Clean your house often, so every time when you and your kid are home, you are happy in your environment.
There is nothing wrong to hope to find a man to lean on. The problem is men are so much more unreliable than ourselves.