"他开车没有M那股潇洒不在乎;他说话没有M那种大大咧咧时而夹杂脏话的痞劲,他看我的目光没有M那种热烈又咄咄逼人的气势,他没有M那种根本不问就会拉起我的手的直率,也没有M会帮我把盘子里的牛排切好的细心,或是专门准备好我喜欢的CD放在车里。。。"
I think this one is more responsible, more boyfriend/hu*****and type. I dated guys 潇洒不在乎 and 痞劲 and 热烈又咄咄逼人 and 直率 and 细心 and all of these etc" but you know what, they are not the commitement type, not the responsible type, not the trust worthy type.
My hu*****and drives conservatively, but i feel so safe and comfortable in his car. My hu*****and talks like a gentlman and he is one! My hu*****and was shy in the beginning, but that's why he respects me, he will not cut the steak in my plate but cut his steak and offer it to me.
Remember, a shy man is a man worth to be discovered. I think at your age, you need to discover the right one, not be taken away. (BTW, I married my hu*****and at age of 30 and had not regreted for one second)