daddy is important to be ready for the child too

you all said the work load of having a child. But to have a child is a life experience too. So the daddy should have right to enjoy his first born. He is too busy in this stage and almost impossible to enjoy his kid. That is not fair too. Wait two years is not a bid deal. She could froze some eggs just in case. Do not be childish. To marry somebody you love is a very precious gift.