回复：if the dad does not love you then it's quite clear you don't

you're still young and you have many other chances to get pregnant with someone who really loves you. Life with a child is far more difficult than without, unless you have tons of wealth to burn and you don't need to earn your own money to make a descent living. But still, with a young child, it's not easy for you to still date other guys if you choose to leave your current spouse. i did not have time to read through all the previous threads but it seems that you mentioned your hu*****and would like to keep the child -- it's unfair to him, and it will be a shadow of your future relationship. Be realistic. End the mistake, and give it a clean start. Just my two cents.