If you google the words "emotional unavailability", you

will see a lot of explanations. I know it's not nice of me to mention these two words in your case because he is your hu*****and. I don't mean to be mean. What you are talking about (not only you, but also the other similar posts) just reminds me these two words.

There are various degrees of emotional unavailabilities. Some people have only a little tendency. Understand these two words may not hurt, although I understand that you love each other dearly.

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• Adding: these people are not "bad" people at all, it is -1800900- ♀ (30 bytes) () 12/30/2009 postreply 10:54:15

• 他把很多情感keep to himself, 不喜欢为此bother别人 -catinblue- ♀ (155 bytes) () 12/30/2009 postreply 10:58:03

• "很多情感keep to himself, 不喜欢为此bother别人". that's just introvert啊！ -Kamioka- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/30/2009 postreply 11:00:19

• 是这样,可是他对别人的期待也一样啊.亲近的人难免伤心的 -catinblue- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/30/2009 postreply 11:03:41

• 哦，这样啊。。。 -Kamioka- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/30/2009 postreply 11:08:27

• 根本不会劝慰人,至多讲些牛头不对马嘴的道理 -catinblue- ♀ (0 bytes) () 12/30/2009 postreply 11:11:53