This sounds a little bit fishy to me
他曾经有一短暂婚姻,前妻刚生了小孩就跟他离婚,据说是因为经常为小事吵架。
Well, it could well be that his ex couldn‘t stand him, so wanted to leave him even when she was just giving birth to a child
有一个问题,A一开始就隐瞒了岁数,他比我朋友大九岁,但谎称大四岁,问了几次都不改口;
A terrible sign that this guy is an dishonest guy
另外他脾气有些燥,经常会为我朋友的几句话或一点小事就很生气;
He even couldn’t control himself with someone whom he just met for short period of time, and claimed that she is the one he want to live with for the rest of his life
他说他小时候父亲经常暴打他,母亲熏酒,所以对母亲又爱又恨,临死没有去看她,因此他两个姐姐也跟他断绝关系。
Very bad family uprising situation that may have some profound negative effects on him
另一个问题,他是工作狂,自称工作是他的最大追求,但隔几天就约我朋友见面,经常累得那啥那啥以后就睡着了,也没时间交流。
Who really knows? I suspect this guy may hide something
感恩节和圣诞节不用上班了,但他要陪他的阿姨去看外州他重病的亲戚,只能送个圣诞礼物给我朋友,而元旦是他父亲的忌日,他要在家看电视,拍太emotional。
I don't know about it, but on the other hand, this guy may make excuse for not being able with LZ‘s friend during the holidays, and that may reflect the fact that he is not available during this time for reasons he don't want to say。
My opinion is based on my instant gut feeling upon reading LZ's des-cribed story。